Like all people who have someone afflicted with Alzheimer’s in their life, it is a trying time. Grandpa, “Gramps”, is 94 years-old and has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in recent years. It is as sad to see his mind deteriorating, as it is to see his frustration at not being able to do the things he once did, most importantly, drive a car and managing his San Francisco real estate company that he has owned since 1952.
The latter he has entrusted to me (actually, the former too).
He still comes to work with me everyday. Though it is sometimes overwhelming for me to try to build a business, while keeping an eye on Gramps, I realize how fortunate I am to be able to share each day with my grandfather. So many of my friends have never even met their grandparents, and may others were too young when they passed to really appreciate them.
Though he mostly just sits quietly at his desk waiting for the mail, or an old client to pass by to chat with him, I believe the office is what keeps him going, and the only place where I would say he is truly happy.
I don’t write this blog to minimize the seriousness of the disease, but rather to put some humor in a sad situation. Like other aspects of life, I find when the going gets tough; the tough had better get laughing. For me, it is the only way to persevere. I invite others, going through this same trying time in caring for a loved one, to share their stories through my blog.
All “Alzheimer’s Facts” are taken from The Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation web site.
Hi Natalie,
My dad shared this blog with me (who got it from your mom when they all went to Gin Mon last week). Wow, you’re a wonder woman! Aside from this being very user friendly and interesting, you’ve captured a lot of what we all love about your grandfather. Ed is a genuine treasure; Dan & I love hearing his stories of ages gone by (even if it’s not the first time we’ve heard them).
Keep up the good work. I’ll check back here soon.
Cheers,
Carla